Leaving the West is Your Only Chance For a Fulfilling Dating Life

Written by Sebastian

Leaving the West was the best decision I ever made. I'll tell you why later. For now I want to ask you a simple question:

"Are you happy with your dating life?"

Unless you live in a truly fulfilling relationship with a beautiful, feminine and supportive woman, this article has the power to change your life. And no, I don't mean this in a Tony Robbins "you can fly to the moon" motivational kind of way. I mean this in a "yes, it is possible to attract an amazing woman" kind of way.

It might not be possible for you to become an astronaut, but it's possible for you to attract a fulfilling relationship. I know it because I've done it and because I know hundreds of men who have done the same. Most of these men (me included) were convinced that they will never experience a happy relationship. They were convinced that something was wrong with them when in reality something was and still is wrong with the country they lived in.

Complaining about your miserable dating life while you live in the West is like treating the symptoms of a disease without ever thinking about the cause. Short-term relief is possible, but long-term fulfillment isn't. You might be familiar with this dilemma. I for sure was, at least until I said "bye bye" to a world that does everything to prevent you from getting the relationship you deserve.

Being Nice is Not Appreciated in the West

Sorry, but that's how it is. And it's not your fault. Heck, it's not even the fault of the Western women. It's not their fault that they have been conditioned to believe that nice guys should be treated like shit. From a young age women get conditioned to believe that men are something to make fun of. They are raised to disrespect men and to believe that jerks, idiots and assholes are attractive.

Have you ever watched reality TV? Geordie Shore, Jersey Shore, not matter what shore…they all represent the same. Being a retarded douche with more muscles than brain is attractive. Oh, and being a retarded bitch who sleeps with these donkeys turns you into a sexy beast. Our culture is ruined and it ruins the Nice Guy.

But I'll be honest with you: I don't want to be a retarded donkey. I don't want to be an asshole. I'm happy that I have a brain. Reading, writing, and discussing philosophical topics is more important to me than applying self-tanning lotion. And yes, I want to be a nice human being who helps others and does good things. Is it really impossible to attract a woman with these qualities?

I Know That You Want to Be a Gentleman

Be honest, you also don't want to be a jerk. Today I'm glad that I stayed true to myself. It wasn't always easy, but it was worth it. I didn't have so much success with this attitude in my home country but as soon as I left the Western hemisphere, my success with women skyrocketed.

I had success because I was nice. Suddenly, being nice, attentive and genuine were my biggest strengths. You won't believe how many women in this world are desperately looking for a nice gentleman because the local men treat them like shit. Yes, these women appreciate gentlemen. They don't say “awkwaaard” when you kiss their hand. They don't tell you about how strong and independent they are when you open the door for them. They haven't forgotten what it means to be a woman.

Until I traveled to countries like Thailand, the Philippines, Colombia and Brazil, I had no idea that being a nice gentleman could be so much fun. I was blown away. Today I live in Thailand with an amazingly beautiful Thai woman who loves me because I'm a nice guy and a gentleman.

You Don't Really Want to Marry Her

Who's HER? Well, she's your typical Western feminist. A friend of mine is married to such a woman and you can believe me when I say that you do not want to marry a woman like her. No sane man would say "yes" to a Western woman who calls herself a feminist. Unfortunately, there are still a lot of men who say "yes" or "I do" to these women. It's shocking. Jesus, I get goosebumps whenever I watch a BuzzFeed video.

These men are desperate and they have never dated a woman from a more traditional country. If they had, they wouldn't date, let alone marry a Western woman. I have never met a man who dated a feminine, supportive, and traditional Asian woman and then said, "Oh well, I dream about marrying a Western woman who doesn't give a shit about her physique, about me, and about our marriage."

No, you want to marry a woman who is feminine, who wants to look beautiful for you, who is proud to be a woman, and who doesn't regard cooking and cleaning as a punishment from the evil patriarchy.

The Effect of Living in a Culture that Values You

At the beginning of this article I told you that leaving the West was the best decision of my life. Now I want to tell you why. Well, obviously because I live together with my beautiful Thai girlfriend who is everything I ever wanted in a woman. But that's just one part of the equation. There's so much more to it.

Living in a culture in which it is normal to respect men, does something with you. Living in a culture in which a healthy male female polarity still exists, makes you feel a certain way. It makes you feel alive, worthy and happy.

Since I left the West I traded depression for happiness and resentment for vision and purpose. I feel a sense of freedom and self-love that I haven't felt in a long time. My friends always ask me, "Sebastian, when will you come back?" When I reply with "Why should I?", they can't think of one reason, no matter how hard they try.


"She looked at her husband, he did like this: You may speak. And she spoke! And I was like, now that's pussy control for you! You know, because I'm used to American women saying: You don't own me." -- Eddie Murhpy

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